About the song
Let’s dive into the world of classic country with Earl Thomas Conley’s heartfelt ballad, “Holding Her and Loving You.” This timeless song encapsulates the complexities of love and longing, delivered in Conley’s rich, soulful voice.
Written by Walt Aldridge and Tom Brasfield, “Holding Her and Loving You” was released as part of Earl Thomas Conley’s album “Don’t Make It Easy for Me” in 1983. The album itself enjoyed considerable success, reaching the top 5 on the Billboard Top Country Albums chart.
Upon its release, “Holding Her and Loving You” quickly climbed the charts, ultimately claiming the number one spot on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart. Its poignant lyrics and soul-stirring melody struck a chord with audiences, earning it widespread acclaim and solidifying its status as a classic country ballad.
Earl Thomas Conley’s emotive delivery and heartfelt interpretation of the song add depth and sincerity to the lyrics, evoking feelings of longing and heartache. The song’s lush instrumentation and timeless arrangement further enhance its emotional impact, making it a favorite among fans of traditional country music.
Decades after its release, “Holding Her and Loving You” continues to resonate with listeners of all ages, serving as a poignant reminder of the complexities of love and the pain of longing for someone who belongs to another. So, whether you’re reminiscing about lost love or simply appreciating the beauty of a well-crafted ballad, let Earl Thomas Conley’s “Holding Her and Loving You” serenade you with its timeless charm and heartfelt sentiment.
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Lyrics
It’s the third-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Leavin’ here without you
And the second-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Is tellin’ her about you
She’s been good to me when things were goin’ rough
How can I tell her now, good ain’t good enough
Oh, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
If she’d give me one good reason, I’d be gone
She ain’t done one thing wrong
So don’t expect me just to walk out of the door
I still love her, but I love you more
She’s been good to me when things weren’t goin’ right
She made my days long before you made my nights
So the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Yeah, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Girl, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you