About the song
Carly Simon’s “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be” is a timeless ballad that resonates with its introspective lyrics and haunting melody. Released in 1971, it marked Simon’s debut single from her self-titled album, “Carly Simon.” The song captivates listeners with its poignant exploration of societal expectations and personal desires, set against a backdrop of acoustic guitar and Simon’s emotive vocals.
Written by Carly Simon herself, “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be” reflects her prowess not just as a singer but as a thoughtful songwriter. The composition showcases her ability to craft narratives that delve into complex emotions, blending folk and pop influences seamlessly. It was a departure from the prevailing trends of its time, offering a more introspective and narrative-driven approach that appealed to a mature audience.
Upon its release, “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be” garnered critical acclaim and chart success. It peaked at number 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, solidifying Carly Simon’s position as a prominent singer-songwriter in the early 1970s music scene. The song’s success was further underscored by its resonance with listeners who connected deeply with its themes of societal pressure, marriage, and personal autonomy.
Carly Simon’s debut album, which included this memorable track, also received positive reviews and established her as a formidable talent in the music industry. Her distinctive voice and storytelling ability set her apart, earning her a loyal fanbase that appreciated her authenticity and lyrical depth.
Over the years, “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be” has endured as a classic, celebrated for its evocative storytelling and timeless relevance. It remains a standout piece in Carly Simon’s illustrious career, showcasing her ability to blend introspection with melodic beauty, making it a must-listen for those who appreciate music that speaks directly to the heart.
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Lyrics
My father sits at night with no lights on
His cigarette glows in the dark.
The living room is still;
I walk by, no remark.
I tiptoe past the master bedroom where
My mother reads her magazines.
I hear her call sweet dreams,
But I forgot how to dream.But you say it’s time we moved in together
And raised a family of our own, you and me –
Well, that’s the way I’ve always heard it should be:
You want to marry me, we’ll marry.My friends from college they’re all married now;
They have their houses and their lawns.
They have their silent noons,
Tearful nights, angry dawns.
Their children hate them for the things they’re not;
They hate themselves for what they are-
And yet they drink, they laugh,
Close the wound, hide the scar.But you say it’s time we moved in together
And raised a family of our own, you and me –
Well, that’s the way I’ve always heard it should be:
You want to marry me, we’ll marry.You say we can keep our love alive
Babe – all I know is what I see –
The couples cling and claw
And drown in love’s debris.
You say we’ll soar like two birds through the clouds,
But soon you’ll cage me on your shelf –
I’ll never learn to be just me first
By myself.Well O.K., it’s time we moved in together
And raised a family of our own, you and me –
Well, that’s the way I’ve always heard it should be,
You want to marry me, we’ll marry,
We’ll marry.