About the song
“Stand By Your Man” is one of the most iconic songs in country music, performed by the legendary Tammy Wynette. Released in 1968, the song quickly became a defining moment in Wynette’s career and solidified her status as the “First Lady of Country Music.” Written by Wynette and producer Billy Sherrill, “Stand By Your Man” is not just a song; it’s a cultural touchstone that has sparked both admiration and controversy over the years.
The song was recorded during a session that reportedly took just 15 minutes, yet its impact has lasted for decades. Wynette’s powerful vocals, coupled with the song’s emotionally charged lyrics, struck a chord with audiences at the time. The song tells the story of a woman who, despite her man’s faults and shortcomings, chooses to stand by him out of love and loyalty. The message resonated deeply with many listeners, especially women, in the 1960s, who saw it as a reflection of their own lives and relationships.
“Stand By Your Man” was a commercial success, reaching number one on the Billboard Country chart and crossing over to the pop charts, where it also made a significant impact. It became Wynette’s signature song, and she would go on to perform it countless times throughout her career. The song’s success was not limited to the United States; it also found an audience internationally, making Tammy Wynette a household name across the world.
However, “Stand By Your Man” was not without its critics. Some viewed the song’s message as outdated and submissive, particularly during the rise of the feminist movement. Despite the controversy, Wynette stood by the song, explaining that it was meant to be a reflection of her own experiences and the complexities of love and marriage.
Over the years, “Stand By Your Man” has been covered by numerous artists and featured in various films and television shows, further cementing its place in the pantheon of great country songs. It remains a staple of Wynette’s legacy, a testament to her talent and the song’s enduring appeal.
Today, “Stand By Your Man” is not just a song; it’s a piece of American history. It encapsulates a particular time and place in the country music genre and continues to be a reference point in discussions about gender roles and the representation of women in music. For Tammy Wynette, the song was a defining moment in a career filled with highs and lows, and it remains one of the most recognizable and beloved tracks in the history of country music.
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Lyrics
Sometimes it’s hard to be a woman
Giving all your love to just one man
You’ll have bad times
And he’ll have good times
Doin’ things that you don’t understand
But if you love him you’ll forgive him
Even though he’s hard to understand
And if you love him, oh be proud of him
‘Cause after all he’s just a man
Stand by your man
Give him two arms to cling to
And something warm to come to
When nights are cold and lonely
Stand by your man
And show the world you love him
Keep giving all the love you can
Stand by your man
Stand by your man
And show the world you love him
Keep giving all the love you can
Stand by your man