For lovin’ me – Gordon Lightfoot (1967)

About the song

Gordon Lightfoot’s “For Lovin’ Me,” released in 1967, stands as one of the most poignant songs in the folk music genre. Lightfoot, a Canadian singer-songwriter known for his rich storytelling and evocative lyrics, wrote this song during the height of the 1960s folk revival. “For Lovin’ Me” encapsulates the era’s essence, reflecting the complex emotions and cultural shifts of the time.

The song itself is a striking blend of simplicity and depth. Lightfoot’s lyrics tell the tale of a man who is unapologetically self-centered, moving from one love to another without remorse. He sings with a matter-of-fact tone about leaving behind those who cared for him, embodying the kind of restless spirit that was often romanticized in the 1960s. However, beneath this seemingly indifferent exterior lies a deeper narrative about the consequences of living such a life. The song captures the tension between freedom and responsibility, a theme that resonates with many listeners, especially those who have experienced the complexities of love and loss.

Musically, “For Lovin’ Me” is quintessential Lightfoot, featuring his signature acoustic guitar work and warm vocal delivery. The arrangement is sparse, allowing the lyrics to take center stage. This minimalist approach not only highlights Lightfoot’s lyrical prowess but also creates an intimate atmosphere that draws listeners in, making them feel as if they are part of the story being told.

The impact of “For Lovin’ Me” extends beyond Lightfoot’s own recordings. The song was famously covered by Peter, Paul and Mary, further cementing its place in the folk music canon. Their version brought the song to a broader audience and added a new dimension to its interpretation. Through their harmonies and delicate instrumentation, the trio emphasized the song’s underlying melancholy, offering a contrast to Lightfoot’s more detached original rendition.

“For Lovin’ Me” remains a significant piece in Gordon Lightfoot’s discography, illustrating his ability to craft songs that are both emotionally resonant and universally relatable. For those who appreciate the art of songwriting, this track serves as a masterclass in how to convey complex emotions with clarity and economy. Even decades after its release, “For Lovin’ Me” continues to touch the hearts of listeners, a testament to Lightfoot’s enduring legacy as one of the greatest folk musicians of his time.

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Lyrics

That’s what you get for lovin’ me
That’s what you get for lovin’ me
Ev’ry thing you had is gone
As you can see
That’s what you get for lovin’ me

I ain’t the kind to hang around
With any new love that I found
‘Cause movin’ is my stock in trade
I’m movin’ on
I won’t think of you when I’m gone

So don’t you shed a tear for me
‘Cause I ain’t the love you thought I’d be
I got a hundred more like you
So don’t be blue
I’ll have a thousand ‘fore I’m through

Now there you go you’re cryin’ again
Now there you go you’re cryin’ again
But then someday when your poor heart
Is on the mend
I just might pass this way again

That’s what you get for lovin’ me
That’s what you get for lovin’ me
Everything you had is gone
As you can see
That’s what you get for lovin’ me
That’s what you get for lovin’ me