About the song
“Here in the Real World” is a poignant and reflective song co-written and recorded by the acclaimed American country music artist Alan Jackson. Released in January 1990, this track served as the second single and the title track of Jackson’s debut album, also named “Here in the Real World.” Early in 1990, the song ascended the charts, securing Jackson’s first Top 10 country hit. It reached an impressive peak at number 3 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks charts and achieved the number 1 spot on the Canadian RPM Top Country Tracks charts. Additionally, it garnered a position of 162 on the UK charts in August 1990.
The songwriting collaboration between Alan Jackson and Mark Irwin resulted in a mid-tempo piece that adheres firmly to the neotraditional country style. The song is beautifully backed by the melodious sounds of a fiddle and a steel-string acoustic guitar, which enhance its heartfelt and authentic feel. The narrative of the song contrasts the idealized scenarios often depicted in movies with the harsher realities of life. The narrator wistfully notes that “If life were like the movies, I’d never be blue,” highlighting the disparity between cinematic fantasy and real-world experiences.
The chorus further emphasizes this theme with the lines, “here in the real world, it’s not that easy at all / ‘Cause when hearts get broken, it’s real tears that fall.” This reflection on genuine emotional pain versus fictionalized portrayals adds a layer of depth and relatability to the song, resonating with listeners who have experienced similar sentiments.
Critics have praised “Here in the Real World” for its thoughtful lyrics and heartfelt delivery. Kevin John Coyne of Country Universe awarded the song an A grade, lauding the clever juxtaposition of reality and fiction. He emphasized that the song’s brilliance lies not only in its intelligent concept but also in the sincerity and simplicity of its execution. An uncredited review from Cash Box magazine echoed these sentiments, commending Jackson’s ability to deliver incredible lyrics with compelling hooks. The review highlighted the song’s comforting nature and Jackson’s soothing vocal range, which together create a powerful and emotionally resonant listening experience.
“Here in the Real World” stands as a testament to Alan Jackson’s talent as both a songwriter and performer. Its neotraditional sound and introspective lyrics continue to make it a beloved classic in the country music genre, reflecting the genuine emotions and experiences of life beyond the silver screen.
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Lyrics
Cowboys don’t cry, and heroes don’t die
Good always wins, again and again
And love is a sweet dream that always comes true
Oh, if life were like the movies, I’d never be blue
But here in the real world
It’s not that easy at all
‘Cause when hearts get broken
It’s real tears that fall
And darlin’ it’s sad but true
But the one thing I’ve learned from you
Is how the boy don’t always get the girl
Here in the real world
I gave you my love, but that wasn’t enough
To hold your heart, when times got rough
And tonight on that silver screen
It’ll end like it should
Two lovers will make it through
Like I hoped we would
But here in the real world
It’s not that easy at all
‘Cause when hearts get broken
It’s real tears that fall
And darlin’ it’s sad but true
But the one thing I’ve learned from you
Is how the boy don’t always get the girl
Here in the real world
No, the boy don’t always get the girl
Here in the real world