About the song
“Only the Lonely (Know the Way I Feel)” is a poignant and evocative song by Roy Orbison, co-written with Joe Melson. Released in May 1960 by Monument Records, this track marked a significant turning point in Orbison’s career, establishing him as a major force in the music industry. Produced by Fred Foster, the song captures the essence of Orbison’s unique vocal style and emotional depth, which would become his signature sound.
Orbison’s journey to this breakthrough hit was marked by several years of struggle and perseverance. After a period of limited success and financial hardship, Orbison found himself collaborating with Joe Melson in an unlikely setting—his car, where he often wrote songs. This partnership led to the creation of “Only the Lonely,” a song that would ultimately change Orbison’s fortunes. The recording session featured an impressive lineup of musicians, including Orbison’s drummer Larry Parks, Nashville A-Team regulars Floyd Cramer on piano, Bob Moore on bass, and guitarists Hank Garland and Harold Bradley. Joe Melson and the Anita Kerr Singers provided the haunting backing vocals that complemented Orbison’s powerful lead.
Upon its release, “Only the Lonely” quickly gained traction, reaching No. 2 on the Billboard pop music charts on July 25, 1960, just behind Brenda Lee’s “I’m Sorry.” The song also secured a spot at No. 14 on the Billboard R&B charts. In the United Kingdom, “Only the Lonely” achieved even greater success, climbing to the number one position on October 20, 1960, where it remained for two weeks. The song’s remarkable 24-week tenure on the UK singles chart made it the longest-charting single of Orbison’s career, a testament to its enduring appeal.
The New York Times described “Only the Lonely” as expressing “a clenched, driven urgency,” highlighting the emotional intensity that Orbison brought to his performance. This intensity resonated with listeners, earning the song a place in the annals of music history. In 1999, the original recording of “Only the Lonely” was inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame, further cementing its status as a classic.
“Only the Lonely” was pivotal in popularizing the “Nashville sound,” a style characterized by smooth production and sophisticated arrangements. Orbison’s ability to convey deep emotion through his voice, coupled with the lush instrumental backdrop, set a new standard in music production.
Roy Orbison’s rise to fame with “Only the Lonely” is a story of resilience and artistry. The song not only launched his career but also left an indelible mark on the music industry. Its timeless quality continues to resonate with audiences, ensuring that Orbison’s legacy lives on through this iconic track.
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Lyrics
Only the lonely
Only the lonely
Only the lonely
Know the way I feel tonight
Only the lonely
Know this feeling ain’t right
There goes my baby
There goes my heart
They’re gone forever
So far apart
But only the lonely
Know why
I cry
Only the lonely
Only the lonely
Only the lonely
Only the lonely
Know the heartaches I’ve been through
Only the lonely
Know I cry and cry for you
Maybe tomorrow
A new romance
No more sorrow
But that’s the chance
You gotta take
If your lonely heart breaks
Only the lonely